The Sensual Self holds a special
place for me as it is the first book by Shobhaa De that I own, though I have
read her works earlier. Winning this book through a poetry-writing contest
makes the experience even more meaningful and memorable.
True to her bold and unapologetic
voice, Shobhaa De approaches themes of sex, love, marriage, and relationships
with remarkable openness. The book revolves around its core idea—the sensual
self—and examines how individuals perceive, suppress, explore, or celebrate
their sensuality across different phases of life. De skillfully contrasts the
perspectives of the new generation with those of older generations,
highlighting changing mindsets while also exposing the persistence of societal
conditioning.
One of the book’s strengths lies
in its relatability. Drawing examples from web series, OTT platforms, real-life
situations, and even classical references, the author bridges contemporary
culture with timeless emotional truths. The narratives resonate deeply, making
the reader reflect on love, desire, guilt, and emotional intimacy.
The book also delves into how men
and women differently relate to their bodies and desires, shaped by societal
expectations, moral judgments, imagination, and the overwhelming influence of
cinema and social media. What stands out is the author’s honesty—nothing feels
sugar-coated or hidden. Instead, De presents these realities candidly,
encouraging readers to confront their own beliefs and biases.
Overall, The Sensual Self is a
thought-provoking and fearless exploration of human intimacy and emotional
truth. It celebrates love in its many forms and invites readers to acknowledge
sensuality as an integral part of self-awareness rather than something to be
silenced or shamed.
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