Let Children Follow Their Dreams: A Children's Day Message Through a Pancake Poem

 

The Pancake Maker

By Michael Rosen

I’m a three-egg beater
pancake eater,
the pancake maker –
Super Pancaker.

I get my kicks
doing the mix:
eggs and milk
butter and flour,
let it stand
for half an hour.

I’m a three-egg beater
pancake eater,
the pancake maker –
Super Pancaker.

I can flip pancakes in the air.
Oh! It’s landed in my hair.

No matter, now it’s done.
Anyone here, want that one?

No? I’ll eat it, fair’s fairy
Eurghh! My pancake’s hairy!

I’m a three-egg beater
pancake eater,
the pancake maker –
Super Pancaker.

Every child has a passion, an imagination and a dream waiting to be discovered. Our responsibility is to encourage, support and give them the freedom to explore.

Children's Day is a wonderful occasion to celebrate childhood, innocence, curiosity and the limitless imagination of young minds. Celebrated in India on 14 November, it also reminds us of Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru's affection for children and his belief that they are the future of our nation.

This Children's Day, let us look at children from a slightly different perspective. Beyond their academic achievements, marks, grades and classroom performances, let us recognise their individual interests, likes, dislikes, talents and choices.

A Pancake Maker – A Little Poem with a Big Message!

Michael Rosen's delightful poem The Pancake Maker is an interesting read for children. The narrator introduces himself as a pancake enthusiast, describing how he mixes eggs, milk, butter and flour to make pancakes. He enjoys the process, flips a pancake into the air and, in a hilarious moment, finds it landing in his hair!

The amusing expressions, repetitive lines and playful language make the poem enjoyable. Children can easily relate to the excitement of making something with their own hands, experimenting and having fun, even when things do not turn out as expected.

But there is another interesting thought hidden in this simple poem.

The narrator enjoys making pancakes. He takes pride in what he does and calls himself a 'Super Pancaker'. It may sound funny, but isn't this what we want every child to experience? The happiness of discovering something they genuinely enjoy doing!

One child may love cooking, another may enjoy painting, singing, dancing, gardening, reading, writing stories, playing a musical instrument or exploring the world of science. Some children may be fascinated by machines, while others may find happiness in caring for animals.

Every interest deserves attention and encouragement.

Are We Listening to What Children Really Want?

As parents, teachers and elders, we often have our own ideas about what children should study, which activities they should pursue and what careers they should choose. Academic excellence is important, but it should not become the only measure of a child's abilities or future.

A child who is not particularly interested in mathematics may have an extraordinary imagination. A child who enjoys spending time in the kitchen may develop an interest in culinary arts. A child who loves observing birds, plants and insects may eventually become a naturalist, environmentalist or wildlife researcher.

We must learn to recognise these interests instead of dismissing them as mere hobbies or distractions.

How Can We Encourage Children's Interests and Choices?

1. Listen without judging: Give children the freedom to express what they like and dislike. Their opinions and preferences matter.

2. Provide opportunities: Let them experiment with cooking, drawing, music, sports, reading, gardening, crafts and other activities. Exposure helps them discover their interests.

3. Encourage curiosity: Welcome their questions, however simple or unusual they may seem. A curious child is an enthusiastic learner.

4. Allow mistakes: Just as the pancake in the poem lands in the narrator's hair, not everything will go according to plan. Mistakes are part of learning. Let children try again.

5. Avoid comparisons: Every child has a different pace, ability and temperament. Comparing siblings, classmates or neighbourhood children can affect their confidence.

6. Respect their choices: As children grow older, involve them in decisions about their education, extracurricular activities and future careers. Guide them with information and experience, but do not impose your unfulfilled dreams on them.

7. Celebrate small achievements: Appreciate their efforts, creativity and willingness to learn rather than focusing only on the final outcome.

From Childhood Interests to Future Careers

Not every hobby has to become a profession, and not every childhood interest will remain the same forever. Children change, explore and discover new possibilities as they grow. However, their interests can provide valuable clues about their natural abilities and inclinations.

A child who loves making pancakes might grow up to become a chef, food entrepreneur, food scientist or cookbook author. Or perhaps making pancakes will simply remain a happy childhood memory!

The important thing is not the career itself, but the confidence to explore possibilities and make informed choices. Let us also remember that success does not have a single definition. A fulfilling career is one that allows individuals to use their abilities, find satisfaction in their work and contribute meaningfully to society.

A Children's Day Resolution

This Children's Day, let us make a small resolution as parents, teachers and elders.

Let us spend time understanding children rather than constantly instructing them. Let us encourage their questions instead of expecting unquestioning obedience. Let us appreciate their individuality instead of trying to make everyone fit into the same mould.

The world needs doctors, engineers, teachers, scientists and administrators. It also needs artists, musicians, writers, chefs, farmers, sportspersons, environmentalists and countless other professionals.

Every profession has its importance, and every child deserves the opportunity to discover where their interests and abilities lie. A happy childhood is not about preparing children only for examinations or future careers. It is about giving them the confidence, knowledge, freedom and support to become responsible, independent and happy individuals.

Let children dream, discover, experiment and choose. Let us be their supporters, not decision-makers of their entire future.

After all, every child has the potential to become a 'Super Pancaker' in their own chosen field!

Happy Children's Day! 14 November

May every child have the freedom to dream, the courage to explore and the encouragement to follow their heart.

A question for parents, teachers and readers:

Do we really listen to what children want to become, or do we decide their future for them? Have you encouraged a child's unusual interest or talent? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments.

Let us celebrate children not merely for what they achieve, but also for who they are and who they aspire to become.

From Cotton to Foam: How to Choose the Right Mattress for Comfort, Care and the Indian Climate

        

A good night's sleep begins with a good mattress. Yet, choosing one is no longer as simple as visiting a bedding shop, selecting a size and asking for a comfortable mattress. Walk into a mattress showroom today and you are likely to be overwhelmed by the choices: cotton, coir, foam, memory foam, latex, spring mattresses, hybrid mattresses and several varieties with different layers of materials and fabric finishes.

Have you ever wondered how something as ordinary as a mattress has changed over the years? From traditional hand-made cotton mattresses to today's technologically designed bedding, the journey has been quite interesting.

In earlier days, mattresses were largely made of cotton. The cotton was filled into a stitched cover, beaten, loosened and rearranged whenever it became compact. These mattresses were familiar in many Indian households. They were simple, could be maintained and repaired locally, and were often made to the required size.

Then came coir mattresses, followed by foam mattresses and, eventually, combinations of different materials. Today, manufacturers offer mattresses with multiple layers, special fabrics, cooling properties and varying degrees of firmness.

But does a higher price or a more sophisticated design necessarily mean better comfort?

Not always!

The right mattress should suit our body, sleeping habits, budget, household requirements and, importantly, the climate in which we live.

1. Understanding the different types of mattresses

Before making a purchase, it helps to understand what goes into a mattress.

Cotton mattresses:

Traditional, familiar and often locally made.

Can be customised to the required dimensions.

Cotton tends to become compact with use and needs periodic beating and fluffing.

Can absorb moisture, so proper drying and ventilation are essential.

Coir mattresses:

Made from coconut fibre, a familiar natural material in India.

Generally firmer and allows better air circulation than many dense foam mattresses.

Suitable for people who prefer a firm sleeping surface.

Quality, density and construction matter. Some varieties can become uneven or lose their original firmness over time.

Foam mattresses:

Available in different densities and firmness levels.

Provide cushioning and can be comfortable for different sleeping positions.

Some varieties retain more heat, which can be uncomfortable in hot and humid weather.

Quality of foam, thickness and density influence durability.

Latex and memory foam mattresses:

Latex offers cushioning and support, with some varieties providing better airflow than conventional memory foam.

Memory foam moulds around the body and reduces pressure points, but some varieties can retain heat.

Both are generally more expensive than basic cotton or coir options.

Hybrid mattresses :

Combine materials such as foam, latex and springs.

Aim to offer a balance of support, cushioning and airflow.

Their performance depends on the quality of the individual layers and overall construction.

There is no single material that is best for everybody. What matters is how the mattress feels and performs after regular use.

2. Which mattress is suitable for the Indian climate?

India experiences different climatic conditions, but heat, humidity and monsoon moisture are common concerns in many regions.

In cities such as Chennai, where the weather is warm and humid for much of the year, ventilation becomes an important consideration.

Here are a few things to remember:

Prefer materials that allow reasonable air circulation.

Avoid choosing a mattress purely because it has a thick, plush top layer.

Be cautious about dense memory foam if you tend to feel hot while sleeping.

Coir and suitable open-cell foam constructions can be worth considering.

Latex is another option, although it generally costs more.

Use breathable cotton bedsheets and allow the mattress to air regularly.

A mattress that feels comfortable in an air-conditioned showroom may feel quite different in a bedroom without air conditioning.

My suggestion: Test the mattress in person, and consider how it will feel during the hottest months and the monsoon season, not just on the day of purchase.

3. King size, queen size or a regular cot mattress?

This is one of the most important decisions. A mattress can be excellent in quality, but if it does not fit the cot properly, it becomes an uncomfortable purchase.

Commonly available Indian mattress dimensions include:

Mattress size	Approximate dimensions
Single cot	3 × 6 feet
Double cot	4 × 6 feet
Queen size	5 × 6 feet
King size	6 × 6 feet

These are indicative sizes, not universal standards. Some manufacturers offer lengths of 6 Before placing an order:

Measure the inside length and width of the cot, not its outside dimensions.

Check the available mattress thickness and the height of the cot.

Measure the bed even if you already know it is called a king or queen size.

Check whether the manufacturer can make a customised size if required.

Do not assume that every king-size mattress from every manufacturer will have identical dimensions.

4. What about mattresses with foam on one side and coir on the other?

Some mattresses are designed with different materials or firmness levels on either side. One side may offer a firmer coir surface, while the other has a softer foam surface.

This can be a useful arrangement for households where sleeping preferences differ or where someone wants the option of changing the feel of the mattress.

However, check the following:

Is it genuinely designed to be used on both sides?

Is the foam layer of good quality?

Does the manufacturer recommend flipping it periodically?

Are both sides suitable for regular sleeping?

Does the warranty cover reversible use?

Remember, not every mattress can be flipped. Some have a designated sleeping surface, with the supporting layers underneath. Turning such a mattress upside down may affect comfort and performance.

5. How firm should a mattress be?

A common misconception is that a very hard mattress is always better for the back.

Equally, a very soft mattress is not necessarily comfortable for everyone.

The right firmness depends on body weight, sleeping position and personal comfort.

Side sleepers: Usually benefit from cushioning around the shoulders and hips.

Back sleepers: Generally need a balanced surface that supports the body without excessive sinking.

Stomach sleepers: Often prefer a firmer surface to avoid excessive sinking around the abdomen.

Medium-firm mattresses are a sensible starting point for many adults, but there is no universal firmness that suits everybody.

Do not buy a mattress simply because it carries the label 'orthopaedic'. Ask about its actual construction, firmness and support.

6. Pillows matter just as much!

A good mattress alone cannot ensure comfortable sleep. The pillow also plays an important role. The pillow should support the head and neck without pushing them too high or allowing them to sink excessively.

Pillows are available in cotton, foam, memory foam, latex and other fillings.

Consider:

Your usual sleeping position.

The height and firmness of the pillow.

Whether the material retains heat.

Whether the cover can be removed and washed.

Whether the pillow can be cleaned according to the manufacturer's instructions.

It is worth investing in good-quality pillows rather than choosing them merely because they are included in a mattress package.

7. Cost, durability and maintenance: What should we check?

A mattress is a long-term household purchase. It should not be selected on the basis of the initial price alone.

What to check -	Why it matters
Material quality	Determines comfort and performance
Foam density	Helps assess the quality of foam construction
Firmness	Should suit the sleeper
Fabric covering	Should be durable and comfortable
Thickness	Should suit the bed and sleeper
Warranty	Understand what is actually covered
Trial period	Helps assess comfort at home
Maintenance	Should be practical for everyday living

A few useful maintenance habits:

Use a washable mattress protector to guard against sweat, spills and stains.

Change bedsheets regularly.

Allow the mattress to breathe whenever possible.

Keep the bedroom ventilated, particularly during humid weather.

Rotate the mattress from head to foot if the manufacturer recommends it.

Flip it only if it is designed for two-sided use.

Avoid excessive moisture while cleaning.

Follow the manufacturer's instructions for drying and storage.

Do not assume that a ten-year warranty means the mattress will remain as good as new for ten years. Read the warranty conditions, including exclusions for stains, sagging and improper use.

8. A checklist before buying a mattress

When visiting a showroom, don't hesitate to ask questions. After all, this is something you will use every single night!

What is the material used inside?

Is it coir, foam, latex or a combination?

What is the density of the foam?

Is it single-sided or reversible?

Does it retain heat?

Is the outer fabric removable or washable?

What is the exact length, width and thickness?

Is there a trial period?

What is the warranty period and what does it cover?

Are pillows included in the price or charged separately?

Also, lie down on the mattress for at least 10–15 minutes in your usual sleeping position. A quick press with your hand is not a proper comfort test!

One more useful point: look for applicable BIS certification and product-standard details. BIS revised its bed-mattress specification, IS 13489, in 2025, incorporating additional mattress materials and constructions. Ask the seller about the relevant standard and certification for the product you are considering.

 

9. Which one would I choose?

There is no need to buy the most expensive mattress in the showroom.

For a typical Indian household, I would consider:

A good-quality coir mattress for those who prefer a firm surface and want a relatively breathable option.

A good-quality HR foam mattress for those who prefer cushioning, provided its density and construction are satisfactory.

A latex or suitable hybrid mattress for those willing to spend more on a different combination of comfort and support.

The final choice should depend on the actual product, the sleeper's preferences, the climate and the budget.

Above all, don't get carried away by attractive advertisements, fancy names or discounts. A mattress is not a decorative item for the bedroom. It is an essential part of everyday living.

From the traditional cotton mattress to modern bedding :

Looking back, the old cotton mattresses had their own charm. They were familiar, simple and often locally made. We knew whom to approach when the cotton became compact and needed to be loosened or replaced. Today, we have more choices, better-designed materials and different combinations of comfort and support. But we also have more decisions to make! Perhaps the best mattress is not the one with the most layers, the highest price or the most impressive advertisement. It is the one that gives us comfortable sleep, suits our climate, is easy to maintain and serves us well for years. A good mattress is an investment in everyday comfort. Choose wisely, sleep comfortably and take good care of it!

What is your experience?

Have you continued using traditional cotton mattresses, or have you switched to coir, foam or latex?

Do you prefer a firm mattress or a soft one? Have you found a particular type that works well in the Indian climate?

What about king-size and queen-size mattresses? Do you find the available sizes and quality consistent across brands?

Share your experiences, suggestions and shopping tips in the comments. Your experience might help someone make a better choice!

 

Snake Gourd in South India – Where Has Its Tenderness and Taste Disappeared?

   

Snake gourd, or புடலங்காய் (Pudalangai) in Tamil and Potlakaya in Telugu, has always been a familiar vegetable in South Indian kitchens. It is a versatile vegetable that can be made into kootu, poriyal, curry, pachadi and even added to sambar.

When tender and fresh, it has a delicate texture, a mild natural sweetness and a pleasant taste. It absorbs the flavours of coconut, dal, green chillies, pepper and other seasonings beautifully.

But of late, there seems to be a noticeable difference in the quality of snake gourds available in the market. What was once a tender, juicy and tasty vegetable is increasingly turning out to be hard, rough, fibrous and almost tasteless.

Why is this happening? Has the vegetable changed, or has the way it is cultivated and brought to our markets changed?

1. Has the vegetable been harvested too late?

This is one of the strongest possible explanations.

Snake gourd needs to be harvested at the right stage. According to Kerala Agricultural University, it is generally ready for consumption about 15–20 days after fruit set.

At this stage:

• The skin should be light green.
• The flesh should be thick and juicy.
• The seeds should be soft and white.

When left on the vine for too long, the fruit becomes less suitable for cooking. Its flesh can become fibrous, and the seeds grow harder.

In other words, a vegetable that should have reached our kitchen while young and tender might be reaching us after passing its ideal harvesting stage.

2. Are newer varieties different?

Another possibility is the choice of seeds and varieties.

Tamil Nadu Agricultural University lists several varieties, including CO1, CO2, PKM1, PLR1 and PLR2. They differ in fruit length, shape and other characteristics.

Commercial cultivation may favour varieties selected for yield, uniformity, transport and marketability. These characteristics do not necessarily guarantee the delicate texture and taste that we remember from traditional vegetables.

However, we cannot conclude that modern varieties are responsible for the decline in taste without comparing the varieties and their growing conditions.

3. Does cultivation and handling matter?

Certainly, growing conditions influence vegetable quality.

Water availability, soil conditions, weather, the stage of harvesting and the time taken to bring the produce to market can all make a difference.

Snake gourd is a succulent vegetable and does not keep particularly well after harvesting. Kerala Agricultural University recommends careful handling and cool storage.

A vegetable that was once harvested and brought to the neighbourhood market quickly may now pass through several stages of collection, transportation and storage.

That is another aspect worth examining.

4. How to identify a good snake gourd while shopping

A few things to look for:

• Choose firm, fresh-looking, light-green gourds.
• Prefer relatively young fruits rather than very large, overgrown ones.
• Avoid fruits with shrivelled skin, yellowing or visible damage.
• If possible, ask the vegetable vendor when the produce arrived.
• When cut open, the seeds should ideally be small, soft and white.

A rough-looking exterior is not always proof of poor quality, since varieties naturally differ in appearance. The internal texture is equally important.

5. Bringing back the taste of traditional vegetables

There is something disappointing about buying a vegetable with the expectation of preparing a delicious traditional dish, only to discover that it has neither the texture nor the taste we remember.

Think of the different dishes we prepare with snake gourd:

• Pudalangai kootu with coconut and moong dal.
• Pudalangai poriyal with grated coconut.
• Pudalangai pachadi.
• Snake gourd curry with tamarind and spices.

These recipes depend on the vegetable itself being fresh and tender. No amount of seasoning can completely compensate for an old, fibrous or poor-quality vegetable.

A thought worth sharing

Our traditional vegetables are not merely ingredients in our kitchens. They are part of our food culture, culinary memories and everyday eating habits.

We often speak about eating seasonal vegetables, supporting farmers, buying locally and returning to traditional food practices. But consumers also deserve vegetables that are harvested at the right time and supplied in good condition.

Are we losing the natural taste of our vegetables, or are we losing the care and attention that once went into growing, harvesting and selling them?

Perhaps it is time for farmers, traders, vegetable vendors and consumers to pay greater attention to the quality of what reaches our kitchens.

A tender snake gourd, cooked with a little coconut, seasoning and love, can make a wonderful meal. It would be a pity if this humble, nutritious and versatile vegetable became just another tasteless addition to our shopping baskets.

 

What do you think? Have you too experienced buying snake gourds that are hard, rough, fibrous and almost tasteless? Do you feel that the quality of this once-tender and tasty vegetable has changed over the years?

Do you have any special tips or tricks for identifying fresh, tender snake gourds while shopping? Have you discovered a reliable vegetable vendor who consistently sells good-quality produce?

Share your experiences, observations and shopping tips in the comments. Let us learn from one another and bring back the taste of our traditional vegetables!