WHAT MAKES ME SMILE

    

Waking up to a brand-new day with a smile—
A gentle smile.
Remembering school days with friends,
Playing in the mud with pets,
Watering my favorite rose plant,
Hoping to see it bloom... and smile.

A smile on the faces of loved ones
Lights up the path ahead with glow.
A healthy breakfast, a smooth ride—
Fueling joy to face the tasks of the day.

Fine weather promises a sweet beginning,
A smile makes each moment worth living.
With prayers to the Lord for a blessed start,
And greeting others on birthdays—pure joy from the heart.

A neatly dressed soul sparks a smile,
A clean home admired all the while.
Tasty food brings thankful delight,
And timely support earns a grateful smile—so bright.

So many moments, big and small,
Hold the power to brighten all.
In every act of love and grace,
A smile finds its rightful place.

(This poem is prepared for a poetry contest in Poetry Soup. Details here https://www.poetrysoup.com/poetry/contests/what_makes_me_smile_2_22553

WHAT I'M PROUD OF

            

I am proud of my honesty, integrity, discipline, good habits, and behaviour.

First and foremost, I am proud to be an Indian. I take pride in being a dedicated student, a respectful daughter, a loving sister, a good wife, a kind daughter-in-law, a caring sister-in-law, a friendly neighbour, a true friend, and an affectionate granddaughter.

I am also a passionate reader, a struggling yet hopeful writer, a good listener, and a cautious caretaker who pays attention to detail.

I take pride in my time management skills, my ability to plan with focus, and my determination to maintain balance between my personal and professional life. I stick to my words and act with commitment. I believe in dressing neatly and appropriately, without being judgmental of others.

Helping others during their difficult times, guiding them to the best of my limited knowledge, and always trying not to be selfish are values I hold close. I maintain a clean and well-organized home, follow my planner diligently, and strive to respect and nurture all relationships around me with genuine care and effort.

I strongly disapprove of bribery—both giving and receiving—and I keep myself away from any interest in others' money or possessions. I never touch anyone’s belongings without their permission.

I avoid expecting too much from others and believe in maintaining healthy boundaries while giving space to those I love. I support activities and initiatives that are good for the environment and society.

Teaching the right values and lessons to the next generation is also something I deeply care about.

These are all the things I’m proud of—and I continue to grow with them every day.

 

A LIFE LONG SYMPHONY : MY JOURNEY WITH MUSIC

 

 

Music leaned towards classical genres in the early days, later evolving with the rise of Tollywood and Bollywood hits. Then came the era of reality shows, with Meri Awaaz Suno introducing talents like Sunidhi Chauhan. This sparked an interest in classical maestros like Pandit Jasraj and his daughter Durga Jasraj.

Gradually, there was a growing fondness for ghazal legends such as Pankaj Udhas and Jagjit Singh. Somewhere in between, pop icons like Alisha Chinai stepped in with hits like Bigi Bigi Raaton Mein.

Anuradha Paudwal and Kavita Krishnamurthy were once the favorites of every music lover. Doordarshan played a critical role in bringing music into every home, extending its support to make melodies accessible.

Love for music is a lifelong relationship that creates a bond of strength and serenity. It brings freshness, energy, positivity, and a hopeful light into our lives.

 HAPPY WORLD MUSIC DAY

FROM PENCIL CIGARETTES TO PRIZE MEDALS

 

The camera opens to a lively front yard in a quiet neighborhood, with sunlight casting long shadows across a stone bench. A little girl, with twinkling eyes and mischief written all over her face, climbs onto the bench with a pencil in hand. She sits confidently, crossing her legs like a grown-up, mimicking a familiar school teacher—a strict male staff member known for his stern look and signature smoking pose. The pencil becomes her pretend cigarette. She squints one eye, lets out an exaggerated puff, and imitates his voice with perfect comic timing.

Laughter echoes as neighbors and family gather to watch this little performer in action. They shake their heads in amused disbelief, some applauding, while others whisper, “This girl has talent!”

That’s the opening scene of my life — spirited, playful, and full of drama.

From there, the film shifts to the school playgrounds. The same girl, now wearing medals and clutching prize certificates, sprints across finish lines, balances spoons and lemons, dodges chairs in musical rounds — always winning, always laughing. A whirl of sports days, cheers, scraped knees, and proud smiles.

Then comes the transformation montage: books replace batons, pencils now scribble neatly in notebooks, and the once-playful troublemaker becomes a focused student. Handwriting improves, essays win praise, and evenings are now filled with Hindi classes and academic goals. The sparkle remains — just redirected.

A movie that begins with rebellion, shifts through energy, and settles into quiet determination — and it’s only just begun.

 

EVENING WALK THROUGH THE BAZAAR

    

I went for a walk last evening. The bazaar was alive, buzzing with energy and overflowing with people of all age groups. Some zipped past on two-wheelers and cycles, while others moved at a slower pace, walking home with shopping bags heavy with the day’s purchases.

A noticeable pattern emerged as I passed the rows of shops: nearly every second store had parents with young children inside. Many were shopping for school supplies—particularly water bottles and school bags. The shelves were stacked with bags in all shapes, sizes, and colors, from cartoon-themed to sleek and trendy designs.

Children clutched the pricier, flashier options, eyes sparkling with excitement as they pleaded with their parents to buy the ones they liked. The parents, meanwhile, patiently tried to balance their children's wishes with practical budgets—negotiating both with the shopkeeper and their child.

It was a scene both familiar and heartwarming—a slice of everyday life in a city preparing for the new school term.

 

MASOOR DAL IN SOUTH INDIA : A SUBTLE SHIFT IN THE LENTIL LANDSCAPE

        

Masoor dal, or red lentils, is a staple in many Indian kitchens due to its quick cooking time and high nutritional value. However, in traditional South Indian cuisine, it is not as widely used as lentils like toor dal (pigeon peas) or moong dal (yellow split lentils), which hold cultural and culinary significance in that region.

Masoor Dal in South Indian Restaurants

While masoor dal is not a traditional ingredient in South Indian homes, it has found a place in restaurants and tiffin centers, particularly in cost-sensitive settings.

Tiffin sambars may include a blend of toor and masoor dal, helping reduce costs while maintaining flavor and texture.

Masoor Dal Variations

Though less common, masoor dal has inspired some creative variations:

Masoor Dal Dosa: In this fusion variation, masoor dal replaces rice in the dosa batter, offering a protein-rich and slightly different flavor profile.

 

Popular Masoor Dal Dishes

Masoor Dal Soup

A wholesome and hearty dish, masoor dal soup is easy to prepare and ideal for a light meal.

To make:

Wash masoor dal thoroughly.

Pressure cook with onion, tomato, garlic pods, black pepper, red chilli powder, and salt to taste.

Once cooked, blend into a smooth puree.

Prepare a simple hing (asafoetida) and jeera (cumin) tadka in ghee and pour over the soup before serving.

Masoor Dal Curry

This quick-cooking curry is a nutritious and flavorful option for everyday meals.

It pairs well with jeera rice, plain steamed rice, or even roti.

The masoor dal tadka is traditional, with a base of onions, tomatoes, and dry spices, similar to the classic North Indian dal tadka.

 

Conclusion

Though not deeply rooted in South Indian culinary traditions, masoor dal has carved a niche for itself thanks to its versatility, affordability, and nutritional value. Whether used in traditional curries, inventive dishes like masoor dal dosa, or comforting soups, it’s a valuable addition to any Indian kitchen.

CULTURAL AND SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF MOONG DAL IN SOUTH INDIA

 

Moong Dal (green gram) holds significant cultural and spiritual importance in the religious traditions of South India. It is often used in temple offerings, festivals, and sacred rituals, symbolizing auspiciousness and good fortune. In many traditions, it is also consumed during fasting periods and as the first food after a fast, aiding digestion and supporting a gentle return to regular meals.

Religious and Cultural Significance

Temple Offerings:
Moong Dal is commonly used in the preparation of prasad (sacred offerings) in temples. A notable example is Akkaravadisal, a rich, creamy dish made with moong dal, rice, jaggery, and milk. This is especially offered during specific festivals such as Panguni Uthiram.

Festivals and Rituals:
Moong Dal features in various dishes prepared for religious observances and celebrations, reinforcing its spiritual and cultural importance.

Fasting and Post-Fasting Rituals:
In Jain traditions, the water in which moong dal has been boiled is consumed first after completing a major fast. It is believed to be gentle on the stomach and helps transition the body back to food.

Symbol of Auspiciousness:
Sprouted moong dal is often associated with good luck and is used in rituals such as housewarming ceremonies to signify prosperity and new beginnings.

Health and Dietary Significance

Apart from its religious use, moong dal is valued for its nutritional benefits. It is light on the stomach, has a low glycemic index, and is rich in protein, fiber, and essential nutrients. In Ayurveda, moong dal is considered to have cooling properties and is often recommended for its mild taste and ease of digestion.

 

Rama Navami Special Offering

During the South Indian festival of Rama Navami, moong dal is an essential ingredient in special offerings prepared at homes. These include:

Panakam (a sweet jaggery-based drink),

Neer Mor (spiced buttermilk),

Vada Paruppu (a fresh, lightly seasoned moong dal salad).

 

Vada Paruppu Recipe

Ingredients:

Split moong dal – 1 cup

Green mango – ¼ cup, finely chopped

Cucumber – ¼ cup, finely chopped

Green chilies – 3, chopped

Grated fresh coconut – 2 tbsp

Lemon juice – 1 tbsp

Salt – to taste

Oil – 1 tsp

Mustard seeds – ½ tsp

Asafoetida – a pinch

Curry leaves – a few

Coriander leaves (cilantro) – for garnishing

Method:

Soak the split moong dal in enough water for 1 hour. Drain well.

In a mixing bowl, combine the soaked dal with green chilies, green mango, cucumber, grated coconut, lemon juice, coriander leaves, and salt. Mix well.

In a small pan, heat the oil and add mustard seeds. Once they splutter, add curry leaves and asafoetida.

Pour this seasoning over the moong dal mixture. Mix thoroughly and serve fresh.

 

CHANA DAL IN SOUTH INDIA : TRADITION, TASTE AND NUTRITION

  

 

Chana dal, or split Bengal gram, originates from India and is a widely used pulse in Indian cuisine. It is derived from chickpeas, which have a broader and more diverse origin story. Research suggests that chickpeas may have originated in Southwest Asia, particularly in regions like present-day southeastern Turkey and Syria.

Origin of the Chickpea

While chana dal is closely associated with India, the chickpeas it comes from are believed to have originated in Southwest Asia. Archaeological and botanical studies suggest their domestication may have begun in areas like southeastern Turkey and Syria.

Chana Dal in India

India is one of the largest producers of chickpeas. Chana dal is made by splitting and removing the outer skin of desi chickpeas, a variety that is smaller, darker, and more robust in flavor compared to Kabuli chickpeas.

Types of Chickpeas

There are two main types of chickpeas:

Desi Chickpeas (Bengal Gram): Small, dark, and rough-coated; primarily grown in India and used to make chana dal.

Kabuli Chickpeas (Safed Chana): Larger, lighter in color, and commonly grown in the Mediterranean, Northern Africa, and Afghanistan.

Chana dal is made specifically from desi chickpeas, which are hulled and split, resulting in a smaller, sweeter, and more digestible pulse. Despite its deep ties to Indian cuisine, desi chickpeas are also cultivated in parts of the Middle East.

Production in India

India produces around 80–90 lakh tonnes of chana annually, with major production states including Madhya Pradesh, Rajasthan, Maharashtra, Karnataka, and Uttar Pradesh. These regions contribute approximately 87% of the total national output.

 

Bengal Gram in South Indian Cuisine

Though chickpeas trace their origins to Western Asia, Bengal gram (chana dal) has become an essential staple across the Indian subcontinent, especially in South India. Its widespread use is likely due to its nutritional value, versatility, and local cultivation, rather than any specific historical trade route.

Versatility in Cooking

Bengal gram is a key ingredient in a variety of South Indian preparations, including:

Curries and dals

Snacks like vadas (deep-fried lentil doughnuts)

Lentil-based powders and chutneys

Nutritional Value

It is rich in protein, complex carbohydrates, vitamins, and minerals, making it a valuable component of a balanced vegetarian diet.

Regional Adaptations

The preparation of Bengal gram differs across South Indian states:

In Kerala, it may feature prominently in lentil curries.

In Tamil Nadu, it is used in sambar, a staple lentil-based stew.

In Karnataka, it forms the base of both sweet and savory dishes.

Natural Integration

Unlike spices or other ingredients introduced via colonial or maritime trade, Bengal gram has become a staple through local agricultural use and natural culinary evolution.

 

Culinary Uses: Sweet and Savory

Bengal gram is used in various forms—whole, split, roasted, or ground into flour—adding depth and texture to both sweet and savory dishes.

Sweets

Hyagreeva: A traditional Karnataka dessert made with chana dal, jaggery, milk, and nuts.

Mysore Pak: A renowned South Indian sweet made using gram flour, ghee, and sugar, famous for its rich, melt-in-the-mouth texture.

Savories

Murukku: A popular snack often made with a mix of rice flour and urad dal flour, and sometimes includes Bengal gram flour for added crispness.

Pottukadalai: In Tamil Nadu, roasted Bengal gram (chutney dal) is used in powdered form in various snacks and also eaten with jaggery as a nutritious snack.

Chola Bhaja: In West Bengal, this crispy roasted gram snack is paired with puffed rice and mustard oil as a street food favorite.

Chana Dal Curries: Bengal gram is a core ingredient in numerous dal-based dishes across the Indian subcontinent.

 

Conclusion

Bengal gram (chana dal) plays an integral role in Indian cuisine, especially in the South, due to its adaptability, nutritional richness, and deep cultural integration. While its ancestral roots may lie in Southwest Asia, its culinary heart beats strongly in Indian kitchens—evident in the variety of dishes it enriches, from humble dals to festive sweets.

WHITE URAD DAL : RELIGIOUS AND CULINARY SIGNIFICANCE

   

White Urad Dal, also known as Urad Gota, holds a significant place in South Indian religious traditions. Beyond being a staple in regional cuisine, it is also deeply embedded in rituals and offerings.

 

Religious Significance

Offerings to Deities
White Urad Dal is frequently used in offerings to gods, particularly in temples and during festivals. It is often part of Prasad (blessed food) distributed to devotees.

Rituals and Ceremonies
This lentil features in various religious rituals, often combined with ingredients like rice and sugar to create sweet offerings.

Symbol of Purity
Due to its white color, White Urad Dal symbolizes purity and cleanliness, making it especially suitable for religious practices.

 

Culinary Applications

Vada, Idli, and Dosa
White Urad Dal is an essential ingredient in South Indian dishes such as Vada (fried lentil dumplings), Idli (steamed rice cakes), and Dosa (thin, crispy pancakes).

Other Dishes
It is also used in dishes like Sambhar (a lentil-based vegetable stew) and is often roasted or ground to enhance flavor and texture.

 

Why White Urad Dal?

Versatility
Its ability to create smooth batters makes White Urad Dal a versatile ingredient in both traditional and modern dishes.

Nutritional Value
Rich in protein, fiber, and essential minerals such as iron and magnesium, it is a nutritious addition to everyday meals.

Symbolic Significance
The lentil's white color and its use in religious offerings symbolize auspiciousness, purity, and sanctity.

 

In essence, White Urad Dal's importance goes beyond culinary utility—it embodies spiritual values and traditions that continue to thrive in South Indian culture.

 

Milagu Vadai Recipe | Anjaneyar Kovil Vadai (Hanuman Temple Vadai)

Milagu Vadai, also known as Anjaneyar Kovil Vadai, is a traditional prasadam (offering) in Anjaneyar (Hanuman) temples. The ulundu vadai malai (garland of urad dal vadas) is one of the most customary offerings. In some regions, a crisp, thattai-like version of milagu vadai is offered and distributed to devotees.

 

Ingredients:

½ cup Whole Urad Dal

1 tsp Black Pepper

1 tbsp Rice Flour

Salt as needed

Oil for deep frying

 

Instructions:

Soak the urad dal in water for 30 minutes. Drain thoroughly using a colander.

Pulse the dal in a mixer without adding water until coarsely ground.

Add pepper and rice flour; pulse again. Add only 1 tsp of water if necessary. The batter should remain coarse and thick.

Add 1 tsp of hot oil and salt to the mixture. Mix well.

Grease a zip-lock cover with oil.

Heat oil in a pan. Take a small lemon-sized portion of dough and place it on the greased zip-lock.

Place another greased zip-lock sheet on top and press with a flat-bottomed vessel (like a davara) to shape it into an even disc.

Flatten further using fingers, ensuring it doesn’t tear. The thinner the vadai, the crispier it becomes.

Remove the top sheet carefully. Use greased fingers to make a small hole in the center.

Gently lift and slide the vadai into medium-hot oil. Avoid high heat.

Fry on both sides until golden brown.

Drain excess oil and repeat for the remaining dough.

 

 

TOOR DAL IN CELEBRATIONS IN THE TAMIL & TELUGU CULTURAL CONTEXTS

 

 

What does it mean to be celebrating a birthday in a poor household?

What can they get for a birthday?

A quite simple tradition in South India that swears to be the best and a fulfilling birthday

The parents give their child a head massage the first thing in the morning of the birthday.

Followed by hearty wishes

A warm bath

Then, a simple meal is served in a plantain leaf

A specialty of serving paruppu

The primary meaning of the word is -dal

Secondary lies the whole world for the birthday boy/girl.

It’s the special paruppu prepared either by buying a minimum quantity or borrowing the same from the neighbour if it is not in stock at home, right on that special day. (Because the toor dal is expensive due to its demand &popularity)

Paruppu – cooking the toor dal, mashing it to the core, adding a pinch of turmeric, and salt

Serving it first in the plantain leaf marks a big celebration and a long history of it being served to mark a celebration.

It is a whole-hearted celebration. It assures that one will be blessed with long life, good health, happiness, and prosperity. That’s why it is served on every special occasion or festival.   

Mixing with rice and having a first gulp, if ghee is affordable, it will be added to enhance its taste, or else simply having it with hot rice marks a great day.

And then a visit to a nearby temple to seek the blessing of the Lord concludes the birthday celebration of poor households in South India.

Here stands the PROUD TOOR DAL that dominates the whole of the pantry. And occupies an unshakeable /formidable place in the list of items in the South Indian cuisine.

The grand dishes that TOOR DAL gets credit for and is celebrated for are’

Paruppusadham – cooked rice mixed with cooked toor dal with ghee.

Manja Pongal - a special dish prepared when a girl attains puberty.

Wash rice and dal together
Cook it in a pressure cooker. Mash it well
add salt and ghee. Mix well.
Manja pongal is ready to be served.

Annaprasanam, also known as the "First Rice Ceremony," is a Hindu ritual marking a baby's first introduction to solid food, typically between six months and one year. It's a joyous occasion celebrating the child's growth and prosperity, with family and friends participating in the first feeding. 

Annaprasanam means "food feeding" or "eating of food" in Sanskrit, signifying the transition from milk to solid food. 

The ceremony is usually performed around six months after the initial breastfeeding or formula feeding period. 

It's a cultural milestone, marking a baby's growth and development, and is a time for family and friends to celebrate. 

The ceremony involves blessings, chanting, and the baby's first feeding, often with rice or kheer. 

While the core concept remains the same, some rituals and practices may vary across regions, with names like "choroonu" in Kerala or "mukhe bhaat" in Bengal. 

Again, the TOOR DAL takes its charge, and paruppusadham is the first food introduced to the baby.

 

 

 

 

Next comes the adage that is popular with TOOR DAL 

Paruppiladhakalyanama!

Paruppiladha kalyanama!

With exclamation and wonder, the importance and the role of toor dal are discussed at various junctures of life.

Paruppiladha kalyanama!  Means a shocking statement - can a celebration be possible without Toor dal

Or A celebration without toor dal!

Many elders use this adage to assure their presence, like toor dal, indirectly showing their supremacy and stating that the celebration will not be complete without their presence.

Everywhere, toor dal / thuvaram paruppu, as named in Tamil, stands with high importance and prominence in the cultural as well as culinary context.

Toor dal is considered auspicious and a must in every celebration

In Tamil Nadu, toor dal is served first, as a traditional practice and to symbolize abundance and prosperity for the year ahead. 

 Serving food on plantain leaves is a common practice in South India and is believed to enhance the flavor and provide a natural, biodegradable serving plate. The natural oils and flavors from the leaf can also infuse the food with a subtle taste. 

The act of serving toor dal first, especially on a plantain leaf, can also represent the importance of traditional values and honoring nature's bounty. 

Toor dal is not just a delicious and versatile ingredient, but also a nutrient-packed food that can be part of healthy celebrations and regular meals. 

 

The same Paruppusadham in Tamil is Pappannam in Telugu. Here again, the Toor dal creates magic in words, too

In Telugu, "pappannam" can refer to a feast or banquet, or more informally, it can be used to ask a young man, "When are you going to get married?”  Or when used in the informal context, "pappannam" can be a humorous way to inquire about a young man's marital status. 

The term "pappannam" is also associated with celebrations and feasts, implying a larger gathering and abundance of food.

In the context of food, "pappannam" can also be a specific dish of dal (lentils) and rice, often served with various accompaniments.

Pappannam is a popular vegetarian dish, particularly in Andhra Pradesh and Telangana. It's known for its simplicity and comforting nature, often served with various vegetable fries, pickles, or other side dishes. 

Like these, the toor dal has a traditional and cultural dominance in the menu of celebrations and the lives of the people in these regions.

Any celebration or a festival is void without toor dal.

In conclusion, toor dal's auspiciousness and cultural significance are rooted in its symbolism, nutritional value, and its role in various religious and social traditions. It's not just a food item. So, don’t miss it. It’s always yummy!

THE ART OF EASING BACK AFTER A VACATION

      

  

Travel and vacations fill us with joy, fresh perspectives, and memories that linger long after the journey ends. One of the greatest takeaways from travel is the boost of positive energy it provides—a renewed sense of happiness, strength, and motivation to return to our daily lives. With the right approach, returning home can be a smooth and empowering transition that sets the stage for the successful completion of tasks ahead.

Preparing Before You Travel:

Set up your workspace: Organize, delegate, and communicate responsibilities to ensure a smooth return to work.

Tidy your home: Clean up, handle laundry, and prep meals in advance for a comfortable return.

Unplug fully: Allow yourself to be truly present during your trip by disconnecting from work emails and social media.

After Returning:

Schedule a buffer day: Give yourself time to rest, unpack, and gradually ease into your regular rhythm.

Restore sleep routines: A consistent sleep schedule is vital to regain energy and maintain focus.

Reintroduce tasks slowly: Don’t rush. Prioritize and phase in your responsibilities to avoid overwhelm.

Fuel your body well: Embrace nourishing meals, stay hydrated, and include light exercise to keep your energy up.

Reflect and re-center: Journal about your experiences, sort through photos, and let the joy of your memories continue to inspire you.

Reconnect socially: Share your travel stories and stay engaged with loved ones, reinforcing a sense of belonging.

By embracing a gentle and intentional return to routine, you not only hold on to the beautiful moments of your travels but also step back into daily life with more strength, clarity, and joy. Prioritizing health, rest, and gradual reintegration sets the foundation for continued success and well-being—powered by the memories you’ve just made.

Back to Routine: Easing the Transition After Travel

Travel and vacations fill us with joy, fresh perspectives, and memories that linger long after the journey ends. One of the greatest takeaways from travel is the boost of positive energy it provides—a renewed sense of happiness, strength, and motivation to return to our daily lives. With the right approach, returning home can be a smooth and empowering transition that sets the stage for the successful completion of tasks ahead.

Preparing Before You Travel:

Set up your workspace: Organize, delegate, and communicate responsibilities to ensure a smooth return to work.

Tidy your home: Clean up, handle laundry, and prep meals in advance for a comfortable return.

Unplug fully: Allow yourself to be truly present during your trip by disconnecting from work emails and social media.

After Returning:

Schedule a buffer day: Give yourself time to rest, unpack, and gradually ease into your regular rhythm.

Restore sleep routines: A consistent sleep schedule is vital to regain energy and maintain focus.

Reintroduce tasks slowly: Don’t rush. Prioritize and phase in your responsibilities to avoid overwhelm.

Fuel your body well: Embrace nourishing meals, stay hydrated, and include light exercise to keep your energy up.

Reflect and re-center: Journal about your experiences, sort through photos, and let the joy of your memories continue to inspire you.

Reconnect socially: Share your travel stories and stay engaged with loved ones, reinforcing a sense of belonging.

By embracing a gentle and intentional return to routine, you not only hold on to the beautiful moments of your travels but also step back into daily life with more strength, clarity, and joy. Prioritizing health, rest, and gradual reintegration sets the foundation for continued success and well-being—powered by the memories you’ve just made.